stupid subway kids!!!!!

[ayashi]

i am furious. i had a stressful day. well work was okay. but then i went to get my dinner and pick up a giant mountain dew for jim and i went downhill :/

[I'm angry so I swear in this entry, sorry in advance]

i went up to the counter at Subway and first of all they had like TWO kinds of bread. I chose to get the oregano whatever kind (and for reference I found out later that I hate it) and the kid starts getting all stupid and cocky and cheesy. he's like:

"So, what's your name? I've been dying to know." Wtf. So I told him (thinking to myself "jesus... whatever.") and asked what his was.

So he goes "Well," (big long, drawn out, fucking COCKY) "you could call 'the sandwich guy'... or you could call me Bill." ugh. what the fuck ever kid, you are NOT amusing. "ok, bill." I replied.

I'm already dreading the end of the conversation, as it is.

He rings up my food and as I'm sorting all my stuff out (because I still had to go to Villa Pizza to get a soda for Jim) he asks if I like plays. So I asked what kind of plays. (I was PRAYING he wasn't asking for any particular reason but I knew that was too much to hope.) He asked if I wanted to go to a Shakespeare and Company play with him sometime. And I was like, god, fuck. "Umm.. if you're asking me out, I have a boyfriend."

And he goes, all cocky STILL, "Well, it's JUST a play." god, if that's my reply to your question I think it means that the fact that I have a boyfriend means I do NOT want to go with you. "Yeah... I'll think about it, whatever." (Of course by "I'll think about it" I mean, no chance in hell I'm going alone with you on a fucking date when I have a boyfriend, you cocky bastard.) I felt so embarrassed. There were other people coming to the Subway to get sandwiches. I start grabbing my stuff to leave and he apologized, and I went to get Jim's drink and made sure to NOT look at Subway when I was walking back.

So I get there and I'm like really pissed and embarrassed and uncomfortable. I hate situations like that. I felt bad, saying that in front of those people, and I felt like I was a bitch saying it the way I said it so I started thinking I would apologize next time I saw him. (I also felt REALLY weird considering it's the first time ever I was "asked out" in my entire life that I can think of) But god I was so uncomfortable. I just wanted to hide when he asked for me to go to a play with him sometime. This is also the same subway kid that Melissa hates because he is so rude to her (and no one is mean to Melissa because she is awesome!! >:o). this kid is a cocky bastard with an ego the size of the americas (both of them). so the more I think about it the more angry I get. he acted like such a dick! maybe some girls get all giggly when he acts like that, but I don't want to be treated like that. him acting all fucking cocky and stupid. I was so annoyed.

it would have been different if he wasn't such a dick about it. I think I would have been a lot nicer to him and told him more nicely that I have a boyfriend and then I wouldn't feel like I was a huge bitch. but now I feel horrible and I'm angry that I feel horrible because I don't feel like I SHOULD feel bad since he was being such a jerk! Or at least I felt he was being a jerk. Maybe it's normal for guys to act stupid in situations like that but I was not amused. Even if I didn't have Chris I still wouldn't have wanted to because of his attitude. But the way he was like "well it's JUST a play" was annoying. I don't care if it's JUST a play, the way you said it definitely sounded like a "you and I" event, not something with other people or something "as friends" (for the reasons of how he was acting earlier in the conversation, and we're not even friends, I don't even know who he is. And he's probably freaking like 16 years old in high school and thinks I'm his age, he doesn't look like a college kid.)

Anyway I'm furious and I can't really explain why, I'm just so mad about the whole thing. and I'm hopping back and forth between wanting to apologize for being bitchy and wanting the conversation to end RIGHT where it did, and never go to subway to eat again. (which is horribly inconvenient since its the only place that takes credit cards so I'd have to start carrying cash with me all the time, or making my own food which is hard since there isn't much food) but what the hell is it with subway guys and me???? Adam liked me last year but at least he wasn't a total jerk about it, he found out from Jared that I had a boyfriend and didn't bother me, just was normal-friendly saying hi to me and stuff, but he was NOT a cocky bastard. (though his reply (to Jared, that Jared told me later) was annoying, "well relationships end!" but jared assured him it didn't look like it was going to.)

anyway I'm in a really bad mood right now >:o I don't want to go to work tomorrow!!!!!

Comments

[navi.livejournal.com]

that guy was a jerk and you do not need to feel bad. like you said, if he had been nicer about it, you would have been. and on top of that, it is incredibly inappropriate for him to do that. you could have reported him to his manager, he could get in deep shit for stuff like that.

[riven.livejournal.com]

You know what they're thinking?
"It's okay, she had Subway!"

XP

[yukinoomoni.livejournal.com]

I've had one of THOSE guys. Only, it attacked me at work -.-;.

I hate men.

Don't feel bad about letting him down. I bet he is used to it. >=3

[chichiri.livejournal.com]

It might seem like you're overreacting at first, but it's one of those special peev things that gets to you. (people hitting on you or making you uncomfortable since you have a boyfriend). So don't be so hard on yourself! :) I flip out when ANYBODY makes the SLIGHTEST inference that I might not be weak because I'm a woman, so it's just one of those personal things that gets to us. You weren't too rude or anything, so don't appologize. :P He probably forgot about the whole thing.

[chichiri.livejournal.com]

er *might be weak since I'm a women

[feliciahime.livejournal.com]

I think you were too nice in the situation. If it made you that uncomfortable, you should have just said, "No, I'm not interested." You don't even have to say sorry... and if he kept going, you should have asked for a manager.. I'm sure he would have shut up quickly then!

[jadedlily.livejournal.com]

What a loser! You had every right to say what you did,and you should not at all feel bad about it~ You didn't sound like you were being mean,maybe irritated but not mean ^_^ Anyhow, that jerk deserves to be treated a lot worse then that >\

[jackylhellstrom.livejournal.com]

1 - Apologize to him and ask him for his phone number.
2 - Give me his phone number.
3 - Sit back and let me do all the dirty work :D

I'm already drawing up posters for this asshole who creeped one of the girls I work with out. I do believe it'll be something along the lines of "Don't like your job? Stay at home and make thousands a month! It's easier than you think! Call [ name ] at [ number ] 24/7; I'm always waiting to show people another way on the road called life!"

^_^

[mokuren.livejournal.com]

Hahaha, omfg, I don't know who you are, but you are now my hero for that. *__*

[jackylhellstrom.livejournal.com]

I don't know who you are either, but does that really matter? Although it seems you vanished over a month ago, so how you posted that is slightly beyond me. Crazy program writing skills, I guess. That or you're not completely gone.

[ayashi.livejournal.com]

I know her from devart and she saw a journal entry there, so logged into lj and read/commented :)

[red-letter.livejournal.com]

ugh, I know how you feel. I was in the same situation late last year with this freaking kid who was in my speech class.. he was one of those "omg I'm really alternative and cool cause I wear hoodies and I don't bathe and I listen to Linkin Park a lot" guys. and the way he tried to hit on me was by reciting stupid poetry and freaking staring at me the whole time for one of his speeches -____-;

and then when I told him I had a boyfriend, he was like "oh Nick? I kow him from freshman year!" and Nick does not know this kid at ALL so it was kind of creepy. and he's doubly annoying because he's not cocky because he thinks he can get all the girls, he's cocky because he writes bad poetry that rhymes and makes himself out to be a tortured artist when he's actually just angry that he doesn't fit in with his peers. and his OHSOGREAT POETRY goes something like this:

I noticed you across the void.
I noticed your eyes so sad.
I noticed that you were alone
and that your hair was really rad.

well, not QUITe that bad. but almost. ugh. I was so glad when that class ended XF

[red-letter.livejournal.com]

oh, and I didn't want to be mean so I talked tot his kid when he came to bug me.. so one time he tried to impress me with his HARD ROCK persona by starting up a conversation about music with me. it went like:

him: so what kind of music do you listen to:
me: um, mostly indie stuff and hardcore.
him: oh uh I listen to hardcore but what's indie?
me: like stuff on independent record labels. what hardcore do you listen to?
him: oh like limp bizkit :D
me: ... >_<;

UGH!
and I'm sorry for turning this into a rant in your journal when I really just meant to say that you were too nice to him. If it happens again you should remind him that he's still in freaking high school and that SINCE HE'S AT WORK AND SUPPOSED TO BE ACTING PROFESSIONALLY he's supposed to be ringing up your damn sandwich.

[jackylhellstrom.livejournal.com]

Shockwave's the best hardcore ever.

www.hxc.com/shockwave

/shamless plug

[signal.livejournal.com]

yeah, you were waaaay too nice. I know you didn't want to be mean, but it's not like you'll ever really have any real contact with him, other than through subway, but you really shouldn't worry about what he might think of you, and do not apologize. It's one thing to hit on someone, but it's another while you're freaking AT WORK. Like I HATE IT SO MUCH when guys ask me my name and how old I am and stupid hitting on shit like that while I'm working. It's like EW get away T_T

[http://users.livejournal.com/--x--bamf--x--/]

If your attitude and telling him you have a boyfriend wasn't (pause) enough for his overacting self, I think he's a tactless fool.
If any girls are getting giggly, then either they're laughing AT him, or his fly is down or something like that.

Make sure nobody you know takes any further grief from him. If he's ever going to get the picture he will very quickly.

And by the way, those guys are still creepy and annoying to guys. (Ugh)

[mokuren.livejournal.com]

You are completely in the right to be angry!! From your entry, it's obvious that he is a little shit to many females.

Here is what you need to do -- you need to report him.

I'm not joking.

He made you feel awful.

AND HE WAS ON THE CLOCK.

As an employee, he was harrassing you as a customer.

Be proactive! Get his cocky, little ass in trouble! >:(

Sorry you had to get into such a bad mood.. *hugs* ; 3;

[mokuren.livejournal.com]

Report to the higher ups at Subway, that is. I bet you could get a link off their website.

LAST ONE I SWEAR

[mokuren.livejournal.com]

Hahaha, sorry. I promise this is the last one.

http://www.subway.com/subwayroot/Applications/CustServ/frmCustomerService.aspx

Your complaint would be forward to the manager. <3
Do it! X3

Re: LAST ONE I SWEAR

[jackylhellstrom.livejournal.com]

I did that to a kid at Best Buy once. I say once because he doesn't work there anymore, and thus, I can't do it again ^_^